Honesty is “being careful of what you say and do so others can trust you”. As usual God is our example. Many times in Scripture God says, “I have said it; I will perform it.” Hebrews 10:23 says “Without wavering, let us hold tightly to the hope we say we have, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.”
We are encouraged throughout Scripture to be honest:
Proverbs 11:1 The Lord hates cheating, but he delights in honesty.
2 Chron. 18:15 … say nothing but the truth in the name of the Lord
Ephes. 4:15 …speaking the truth in love…
In teaching our children honesty, we must be an example to them. Always do what you say you will do. If you make a promise, keep it; and never make a threat in disciplining that you can not follow through with if they disobey (example: I will throw you out the window if you scream one more time) Children need the security of knowing they can trust Mom and Dad. A child’s healthy relationship with his parents paves the way for a healthy relationship with God. We are God’s representative to them and need to show them they can trust us and Him.
Tell your children stories of men and women in history who told the truth and those that didn’t and suffered the consequences. Here are a few book or website suggestions:
The following is a song with signing about honesty: