How’s your thank you list going? Regularly writing down what you are thankful for can increase your level of happiness by 25%. I have always believed that an attitude of gratitude changes your disposition because of what Scripture indicates. However, Thanks!: How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier offers scientific evidence of this and that a grateful spirit actually improves your health. I haven’t read the book yet, but I am always thrilled when scientists discover the reality of what Scripture has always said.
Always help your children understand the holidays you celebrate. Have fun telling the story of the first Thanksgiving and acting it out with Indian headbands and Pilgrim hats.
Click here for a coloring book you can download and print that gives a simple explanation of the first Thanksgiving. Talk about each page as you color.
The following sites have patterns for pilgrim hats and Indian headbands:
I am thankful for all of you who follow my blog and have a desire to train up your children according to Scripture. Thank you to family and friends who continue to encourage me to post. Thanks to the Lord Jesus Christ for all things!!!!!!!
Take a walk around the house or outside and point out things you are thankful for. Turn it into a prayer of thanks as you say “Thank you God for” and name each thing. You can also take pictures of these things and put them in a thank you box that you can decorate together. Each night you can pull out a picture and thank God for it. You can include in your box pictures of family and friends to be thankful for. Older children may want to draw pictures or make a thank you notebook. These activities are for the whole family. You never get too old to be thankful for the things and people around you.
Click on the link to hear a song you can use to sing your thank you’s as you walk. I apologize for the quality. . . it is from a 32 year old tape . . . but you can still get the tune and the idea.
Click on this link somuch-scott to hear a fun, thankful song that the children love. I couldn’t remember exactly how it went so I called our good friend and minister of music, Scott Eaton, and got him to sing it over the phone. Start with your hands together and as you sing the song pull them further and further apart until your arms are wide open. Bring your hands back together in a big clap before the last phrase.
You can sing this next song to the tune of :”Frere Jacques” also known as “Are You Sleeping?” Sing it with hands folded in prayer and head bowed:
We are thankful
We are thankful
Yes we are
Yes we are
Thankful for our food
Thankful for our family
Give God thanks
Give God thanks
This would be a good time to memorize Psalm 100 or any psalm of thanks. If your child can’t read yet, try making a picture for the main words in the psalm to help in memorizing.
Psalm 100:1-5
Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands.
Serve the Lord with gladness:
Come before his presence with singing.
Know ye that the Lord he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves;
We are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.
Enter into his gates with thanksgiving,and into his courts with praise:
Be thankful unto him, and bless his name.
For the Lord is good; his mercy is everlasting;
and his truth endureth to all generations.
About the 1st of November, I always put a large piece of paper and tie a pen on the refrigerator with the words, “Thank you God for” at the top. Family members are encouraged to regularly write down something they are thankful for. This has been a tradition for many years in our home. We enjoy writing our own and reading what the rest of the family has written.
Writing down your blessings can really change your outlook. As the old hymn by Johnson Oatman says, “Count your many blessings; name them one by one; and it will surprise you what the Lord has done.”
Patience is “waiting until later for what I want now”. God is our perfect example of this as He wants our love and affection now, but He waits patiently until we are ready to yield to Him:
And remember, the Lord is waiting so that people have time to be saved…2 Peter 3:15
Don’t you realize how kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Or don’t you care? Can’t you see how kind he has been in giving you time to turn from your sin? Romans 2:4
If God has such patience with us, we should have patience with each other:
Be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Ephesians 4:2
As parents, our patience is tested daily and there are times when we all think we have totally lost it. This is when we need to rest in the fact that through knowing God and by His power, we can endure anything:
We also pray that you will be strengthened with his glorious power so that you will have all the patience and endurance you need…Col. 1:11
Knowing God leads to self-control. Self-control leads to patient endurance, and patient endurance leads to godliness. 2 Peter 1:6
One way our children learn patience is from observing us. They will usually respond to a situation the same way we do, so they need to see us exercising our patience in difficult situations. When we lose our patience, it can be make the situation worse; when we are patient, we have a calming effect on our children.
Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might show forth all longsuffering (patience), for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him. 1 Tim. 1:16
In addition to your modeling patience, you can have fun using creative activities to teach patience. Here are some ideas I have used through the years with my own children and with my two year old class this last month:
1. Our theme song for the month has been from a children’s musical called Music Machine (click to see this album available at Amazon.com). To hear the song about patience click here 07-have-patience1.
2. In this song Herbert the Snail sings “Have Patience”. We had fun making a snail out of clay dough and painting it after it dried. To make the clay-dough, mix 1 cup flour, 1/2 cup salt, and 1/3 cup water. Roll the dough into a snake and curl it like a snail. Use a broken toothpick for feelers.
Herbert the Snail
3. We also learned to sign the song.
4. I had the children all sit down on the carpet and wait quietly until the timer went off (about one minute or so) and then I gave them a small treat and thanked them for waiting patiently.
5. We pointed out patience in any video we watched or book we read.
6. When we read The Tortoise and the Hare, we made a turtle out of a paper plate folded in half for its shell and then added a head, legs, and tail. We talked about how the turtle walked patiently toward his goal.
7. When we read Daddy, Are We There Yet, we pretended to take a car trip and talked about waiting patiently until we arrived at our destination.
8. I thanked them anytime I observed them using patience.
9. I acted out being impatient, which really surprised them to see me act like they do sometimes when they don’t get what they want and when they want it. ( I later apologized for not being patient)
I’m sure you can come up with more creative ideas of your own. Have fun and remember that with God’s power you can “Have Patience”
It is never too early nor too late to begin teaching character to your children.
Steve McChesney has a great article about teaching children the character quality of respect. It can be found at here.
I just spent a month teaching my two-year-old class about respect. We used the word often when correcting unacceptable behavior and we looked for examples of respect or lack of respect in any books we read.
I took Aretha Franklin’s song “R-E-S-P-E-C-T” and changed the words (see below). The children loved it and have really responded well to the teaching. They have grasped the concept of respect as showing kindness and they use the term appropriately, plus they have learned to spell the word. And they are only two years old!!
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
R-E-S-P-E-C-T spells respect it’s plain to see.
R-E-S-P-E-C-T means I’m kind to you; you’re kind to me.
Show
Respect to your mom
Respect to your dad
Respect to your friends
Respect for their things
Respect to your teachers
Respect for your school
R-E-S-P-E-C-T This is what it means to me!! (clapping as you say this)
My mentor, Jo Bevington, sent me a letter recently. I am sharing it with you so you can hopefully capture her passion for establishing God’s Word in children, and you can feel the joy she possesses in her life. Keep in mind that she is 85, never had children of her own, has been a widow for about 40 years, and had a stroke recently which has left her unable to see very well and unable to walk without a walker. The only thing she has expressed regret about her situation is that she just had to give up teaching her preschool Sunday School class because her walker was too much of a distraction and safety hazard for the children.
Dear Sheilah,
What joy it has been to talk to you on the telephone!
These are the preschool Bible thoughts I was telling you about. What joy it is to me to make me a pocket verse everyday and by the end of the day I have memorized it…..So I think what fun it would be for families of preschoolers to make their child a “pocket verse” every day. Since young children are concrete learners, the words of the Bible might become valuable to them if they carried around a little Bible thought each day.
Today was a fun day for me. Rebecca, who cleans my house, decided she wanted to learn to play piano. And it has been great joy for me to teach her. We just take time out from her work and have a lesson. I am trying to play again, even though it is very hard to see. I can only do it a short time each time I try. But the Lord is Good! I can still play.
I love you, Sheilah!
Jo
Jo’s joy, in spite of her circumstances, comes from her daily contact with God through His Word.
Listed below are some of the Bible thoughts she mentioned. If you want to see more, please contact me. Deuteronomy says we are to be ready to share God’s Word with our children as we go about our daily routine. I liked Jo’s idea of putting it on a card and giving the child something tangible to hold on to all day.
God called the light ‘day’ and the darkness he called ‘night’ Genesis 1:5
God made all kinds of trees to grow. Genesis 2:9
Love your father and mother. Exodus 20:12
A friend loves at all times. Proverbs 17:17
Everything God made is beautiful. Ecclesiastes 3:11
Here is another video teaching aid using Joe. Children are concrete learners so using visuals with them is very helpful in getting a point across. You can easily adapt Joe to help you teach many things to your children.
In this video Joe learns that he is special just the way he is. Self esteem is a foundational character quality that we all need to have. We as parents need to feel good about ourselves before we can help our children learn to value their own uniqueness. God wants us all to know that He loves us just the way we are. Romans 5:8 But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.
If you can’t get the video to play, try clicking this link.
My son convinced me to livestream a video. So I now have a youtube.com account - my username is sheilahdaws. Look me up if you want. I’ll also post all the videos I put on there at this website.
Here is the first one I did. It is a teaching aid with songs to help teach the senses. This is simple to make out of felt and can be used with infants on up. The songs are easy to learn and children enjoy them over and over. I hope you will enjoy creating your own “Joe” and singing with your children as you help them discover that they are “wonderfully made” by God. (Psalm 139:14)
If you can’t get the video to play, try clicking this link.
. . . but you can still get the tune and the idea.
Enter into his gates with thanksgiving,
( I later apologized for not being patient)